Comments on: The Heart of Upsets: Beyond Conflict http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/ What makes us stick together? Wed, 04 Aug 2010 20:34:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Julette Millien http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-63 Julette Millien Tue, 14 Jul 2009 17:51:03 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-63 This is a profoundly important post. I'm so glad I clicked over to receive these pearls of wisdom. You say so much. It is, isn't it, what distinguishes these great loving souls from the rest...their ability to come from the heart and be about solutions, not problems and egos? To come from the heart, I've found forgiveness to be the very essence of that journey and of love, actually. How really can we keep an intimate relationship going but with daily rounds of forgiveness? Thank you for this! http://www.twitter.com/JuletteMillien ♥♥♥ This is a profoundly important post. I’m so glad I clicked over to receive these pearls of wisdom. You say so much. It is, isn’t it, what distinguishes these great loving souls from the rest…their ability to come from the heart and be about solutions, not problems and egos?

To come from the heart, I’ve found forgiveness to be the very essence of that journey and of love, actually. How really can we keep an intimate relationship going but with daily rounds of forgiveness?

Thank you for this!
http://www.twitter.com/JuletteMillien
♥♥♥

]]> By: Robert Berryman http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-57 Robert Berryman Mon, 29 Jun 2009 17:18:18 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-57 Jordan-having know you for over 40 years, I have benefited greatly from your guidance and friendship. It is wonderful that you have a forum for spreading the word to others. This wisdom that you share is a profound one. Thank you for helping us to discover more about ourselves, while at the same time creating more satisfying and meaningful relationships with those around us. Thank you! Jordan-having know you for over 40 years, I have benefited greatly from your guidance and friendship. It is wonderful that you have a forum for spreading the word to others. This wisdom that you share is a profound one.

Thank you for helping us to discover more about ourselves, while at the same time creating more satisfying and meaningful relationships with those around us. Thank you!

]]> By: Jordan Paul http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-56 Jordan Paul Mon, 29 Jun 2009 00:50:50 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-56 Eve: You have already given a most insightful and important observation. When confronting an upsetting situation and our emotions predominant, which occurs most of the time, our intellect with all our thoughts, promises, ideals etc. gets lost. We can strive toward more heart-connected responses and along the way ameliorate the negative consequences of losing our hearts by: 1. Becoming more aware when we have lost that connection. 2. Committing to return to our heart when that connection is lost. 3. Once reconnected to our center, learning from and working toward resolving the fears and beliefs that caused our disconnection. 4. Cleaning up the messes that were created by our off-center/unloving responses. Eve: You have already given a most insightful and important observation. When confronting an upsetting situation and our emotions predominant, which occurs most of the time, our intellect with all our thoughts, promises, ideals etc. gets lost. We can strive toward more heart-connected responses and along the way ameliorate the negative consequences of losing our hearts by:

1. Becoming more aware when we have lost that connection.
2. Committing to return to our heart when that connection is lost.
3. Once reconnected to our center, learning from and working toward resolving the fears and beliefs that caused our disconnection.
4. Cleaning up the messes that were created by our off-center/unloving responses.

]]> By: Eve I http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-55 Eve I Sun, 28 Jun 2009 16:50:18 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-55 Dear Jordan, Thank you for sending us this blog. No useful comment until I've given it more thought and some practice. (After all, I want to see if I can remember it in the heat of conflict...) Warmly, Eve Dear Jordan,
Thank you for sending us this blog.
No useful comment until I’ve given it more thought and some practice. (After all, I want to see if I can remember it in the heat of conflict…)
Warmly,
Eve

]]> By: Kay Snow-Davis http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-54 Kay Snow-Davis Sun, 28 Jun 2009 07:45:06 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-54 Aloha Jordan, I know how deeply you care about making change, in your personal life and the lives of others. This commitment is a guiding light for your continued expression and guidance, inside and out. Blessings to you, Kay Aloha Jordan, I know how deeply you care about making change, in your personal life and the lives of others. This commitment is a guiding light for your continued expression and guidance, inside and out. Blessings to you, Kay

]]> By: Glennis http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-53 Glennis Sat, 27 Jun 2009 21:36:23 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-53 Dr. Jordan Paul, Thank you for the lovely written concise set of tools of connecting with others from the heart with integrity and self/Self awareness. So glad that your very important message is getting out!! Carpe Diem! Glennis Glennis Gita (Walters) Smith glennis@jumpintuit.com Publisher Advertise Your Business++Support a Nonprofit!! Jump IN Tuit ( Insight+ Action! ) The Miracle Fund Nonprofit The Therapist Directory and Guide office ph# 303-449-6822 www. JumpINTuit.com www.miraclefund.us Dr. Jordan Paul,
Thank you for the lovely written concise set of tools of connecting with others from the heart with integrity and self/Self awareness. So glad that your very important message is getting out!!

Carpe Diem!

Glennis

Glennis Gita (Walters) Smith glennis@jumpintuit.com
Publisher
Advertise Your Business++Support a Nonprofit!!
Jump IN Tuit ( Insight+ Action! )
The Miracle Fund Nonprofit
The Therapist Directory and Guide
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www. JumpINTuit.com
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]]> By: Global Patriot http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-52 Global Patriot Sat, 27 Jun 2009 18:55:03 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-52 "Responding from the heart in the face of difficulties is the road less traveled." Beautiful quote, as we should all try to connect with the heart in difficult times - it's the point from which love and truth emerge. “Responding from the heart in the face of difficulties is the road less traveled.” Beautiful quote, as we should all try to connect with the heart in difficult times – it’s the point from which love and truth emerge.

]]> By: Jessica http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-51 Jessica Sat, 27 Jun 2009 02:27:34 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-51 Grandpa Jordan - What a beautiful post! You and my husband think so alike and I just love you both. I am thankful to have had influences in my life (like my Father / your son) that have already set me up with some of these understandings. Mastering them seems to be my challenge. Your wisdom is valued and loved. From my heart, Jessica Blackwell Grandpa Jordan – What a beautiful post! You and my husband think so alike and I just love you both. I am thankful to have had influences in my life (like my Father / your son) that have already set me up with some of these understandings. Mastering them seems to be my challenge. Your wisdom is valued and loved.

From my heart,
Jessica Blackwell

]]> By: Joyce http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-50 Joyce Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:07:44 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-50 Thank you for sharing your knowledge, wisdom and experience with us in such a concise manner. So value being able to read "1 page" and get the whole picture. You give a situation that occurs and immediately suggest some ways to handle it. I now have a new tool to help myself with. Thank you for sharing your gifts with us. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, wisdom and experience with us in such a concise manner. So value being able to read “1 page” and get the whole picture. You give a situation that occurs and immediately suggest some ways to handle it. I now have a new tool to help myself with. Thank you for sharing your gifts with us.

]]> By: Frosty Wooldridge http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-49 Frosty Wooldridge Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:00:06 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-49 Since I know Jordan Paul personally, I am always touched even more deeply by his advocating for heart connections. Why? He lives the way he advises. His energy connects with others as to heart, mind, spirit and body. He offers that same rare combination in his work. I'm reading his fabulous book: Be Your Own Hero. He shares tremendous experience with wise words and connections. Blessings and peace to all life on this planet. Frosty Wooldridge Since I know Jordan Paul personally, I am always touched even more deeply by his advocating for heart connections. Why? He lives the way he advises. His energy connects with others as to heart, mind, spirit and body. He offers that same rare combination in his work. I’m reading his fabulous book: Be Your Own Hero. He shares tremendous experience with wise words and connections. Blessings and peace to all life on this planet. Frosty Wooldridge

]]> By: Katy Byrne, MFT http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-48 Katy Byrne, MFT Fri, 26 Jun 2009 18:09:25 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-48 As always, Jordan, you are a master at the art of loving. It is quite amazing to me that we still live in a world which does not teach loving in the schools or, for that matter, anywhere else. But, for people like you - thanks. We are beginning to have a better planet. I, for one, am finding that my heart has been closed since the attack of 9/11 and am just discovering my own wall, crumbling, bit by bit, letting in a bit more joy each day. I hope to dialogue with you on Public Radio again very soon. With Regard, Katy Byrne, MFT conversationswithkatyc.om As always, Jordan, you are a master at the art of loving. It is quite amazing to me that we
still live in a world which does not teach loving in the schools or, for that matter,
anywhere else. But, for people like you -
thanks. We are beginning to have a better planet.
I, for one, am finding that my heart has been
closed since the attack of 9/11 and am
just discovering my own wall, crumbling, bit
by bit, letting in a bit more joy each day.
I hope to dialogue with you on Public Radio
again very soon.
With Regard,
Katy Byrne, MFT
conversationswithkatyc.om

]]> By: Jordan Paul http://www.ugluu.com/the-heart-of-upsets-beyond-conflict/comment-page-1/#comment-47 Jordan Paul Fri, 26 Jun 2009 13:28:23 +0000 http://www.ugluu.com/?p=404#comment-47 Eric: Beautifully said. You are a poet as well as an incredible photographer. A very important reason for being in relationship is to learn about ourselves. Without that learning we become stuck blaming others for our difficulties and trying to get them to change rather that learning about how we can stay in our hearts no matter what others are doing. That's a real challenge. Eric: Beautifully said. You are a poet as well as an incredible photographer. A very important reason for being in relationship is to learn about ourselves. Without that learning we become stuck blaming others for our difficulties and trying to get them to change rather that learning about how we can stay in our hearts no matter what others are doing. That’s a real challenge.

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