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		<title>Help Employees Recognize Their Role and Value</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 21:14:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You communicate with employees for a hundred reasons — to keep them “in the loop,” “up to speed,” “on the same page” — but what is the overarching purpose? You should try to make your company, your division, your department feel to them like a furniture shop felt to the workers, before the industrial revolution. [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.ugluu.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/EmployeeCommunicationIsGRAPHIC.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-839" style="margin-bottom: 20px; margin-right: 300px;" title="EmployeeCommunicationIsGRAPHIC" src="http://www.ugluu.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/EmployeeCommunicationIsGRAPHIC.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="359" /></a>You communicate with employees for a hundred reasons — to keep them “in the loop,” “up to speed,” “on the same page” — but what is the overarching purpose?</p>
<p>You should try to make your company, your division, your department feel to them like a furniture shop felt to the workers, before the industrial revolution.</p>
<p>“Perhaps eight men work there. One of them is the boss. He owns the shop, but he works there, visibly. The other seven receive wages. The work done by the boss is not all done with tools; sometimes he uses a pencil. He draws designs, writes occasional letters, puts down figures about wages, costs, and prices,” wrote Alexander Heron in a little-known 1942 masterpiece, Sharing Information with Employees, the first book ever written on employee communication.</p>
<p>Read Heron’s description of the shop, and reorganize your employee communication program to create a meaningful workplace where workers know what’s happening, and why.</p>
<p>This kind of workplace:</p>
<p>The shop or factory is on the same lot as the house where the boss lives; he owns it. The other seven know how much his taxes are each year. … They were all in on the discussion before the new lathe was bought, and they remember the price and the freight. They remember how the boss borrowed some of the money from his wife&#8217;s sister.</p>
<p>They know that the dining room &#8220;suit&#8221; on which they are working now is for Jane Winton, [who] used to be Jane Carey, the schoolteacher, before she married Bill Winton, the banker. They know it has to be as good as the furniture she saw in Buffalo, and that if it is good Bill&#8217;s mother is going to give the boss an order for another lot which will keep them all busy through the winter.</p>
<p>They see the finished job emerging under their skilled hands, day by day. They know how difficult it was to get the seasoned walnut, and what it finally cost, what price is to be paid for the finished job, how much the boss will &#8220;make&#8221; on it, and how much of that will go to pay off the loan from the sister-in-law.</p>
<p>They know that the boss has gradually built a reputation for honest quality and skilled workmanship and that they are part of that reputation. They know why once in a while they have had to wait a little for their wages—when the taxes had to be paid before the money came in for the new counter and fixtures at the drugstore.</p>
<p>Above all, they know the boss. Their attachment to him is basically not sentimental but practical. He is the salesman who gets the orders which bring work to them. He collects the money which pays their wages. He manages to accumulate the working space and the equipment. They are realistic enough to know that they can get their full and fair share of the income of the business. …</p>
<p>They know. Because they know, they understand. And in that full and simple understanding they &#8220;put themselves&#8221; into every job.</p>
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		<title>How Would You Define The Problem?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 15:58:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I watch political campaigns, national debates, business meetings, and family discussions where the rhetoric and emotion increases while the civility and connection decreases, I see a common thread: failure to stop the discussion of solutions long enough to come to an agreement on how to define the problem. I&#8217;m guilty myself. I see a [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.sxc.hu" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-670" style="margin-bottom: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="1222919_metal_confusion_1" src="http://www.ugluu.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/1222919_metal_confusion_1.jpg" alt="1222919_metal_confusion_1" width="300" height="200" /></a>As I watch political campaigns, national debates, business meetings, and family discussions where the rhetoric and emotion increases while the civility and connection decreases, I see a common thread: failure to stop the discussion of solutions long enough to come to an agreement on how to define the problem.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m guilty myself. I see a problem. I assume other people see the problem and that they will define it the same way that I define it. I assume that we all understand what the criteria for a &#8220;good&#8221; solution will be. And I dive head-first into a conversation where I try to &#8220;sell&#8221; my solution to the problem as I see it.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a thought: stop discussing the solution until we agree on the definition of the problem.</p>
<p>In the process, you might ask questions like:</p>
<ul>
<li>Do we both agree that there is a problem?</li>
<li>What is the problem?</li>
<li>What is the scope of the problem?</li>
<li>What is causing the problem?</li>
<li>What would a good solution look like?</li>
</ul>
<p>Until we reach agreement on these starting questions, we can never agree on the solution to the problem.</p>
<p>How many conflicts could we resolve, reduce, or even eliminate if we all stopped talking about the solution long enough to understand our different ways of defining the problem?</p>
<p style="font-size: 9px;">Photo courtesy of <a href="http://www.sxc.hu" target="_blank">www.sxc.hu</a>.</p>
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		<title>A Better Way To Give Bad News</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 12:41:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Peggy Klaus</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Delivering bad news is as undesirable as it is unavoidable. Nobody wants to do it. Yet sooner or later, most of us have faced the agonizing responsibility of communicating a message about corporate downsizing, quarterly losses, or poor job performance. Even the highest-ranking executives take extreme measures to sidestep the task—they hide out in their [...]
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<p>Delivering bad news is as undesirable as it is unavoidable. Nobody wants to do it. Yet sooner or later, most of us have faced the agonizing responsibility of communicating a message about corporate downsizing, quarterly losses, or poor job performance. Even the highest-ranking executives take extreme measures to sidestep the task—they hide out in their offices or delegate the duty to the next in command.</p>
<p>When it comes to delivering the tough stuff, we tell ourselves:</p>
<ul style="padding-left: 290px;">
<li>If I wait, the situation will resolve itself.</li>
<li>This isn&#8217;t a good time; I&#8217;ll do it later.</li>
</ul>
<p>Most likely, these statements are unfounded and thinking them only puts off the inevitable.</p>
<p>Here are some tips on serving up bad news with compassion and dignity:</p>
<p><strong>1) SET THE STAGE</strong> for the relationship between the presenter and audience. Identify the goals, needs, and expectations of the audience. Consider the emotional temperature—the nature and intensity of the audience&#8217;s thoughts and feelings—that will be brought into the meeting. For example, how will the company downsizing impact them? Then take your own emotional temperature as well.</p>
<p><strong>2) SEND THE MESSAGE.</strong> Think about what the audience should be inclined to do, think, or feel at the end of the presentation. Avoid generalities like, “I want them to understand the infrastructure changes.” Instead, think along the lines of “I want them to be excited about the direction our company is taking and see this as a positive change.”</p>
<p><strong>3) ACKNOWLEDGE THE PROBLEM.</strong> The Good News: &#8220;Congratulations, you&#8217;ve been promoted to Managing Director!&#8221; The Bad News: &#8220;Despite increased performance, there will be a substantial cut in your bonuses.&#8221; This message was not likely to be well-received by my client&#8217;s group. After Setting the Stage and rehearsing, she began announcing the news by acknowledging the problem, then continued with an outline for turning the situation around. She complimented them on effective teamwork, while keeping the focus of her presentation on how this would translate into future financial rewards for everyone.</p>
<p><strong>4) STAY ON TRACK.</strong> The stress of telling someone something they don&#8217;t want to hear can be paralyzing. Here are some inner monologues to help you avoid “meltdown.” Repeat these phrases to yourself to help you stay on track:</p>
<ul>
<li>I need to tell you this</li>
<li>We need to discuss this</li>
<li>You must hear this</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>5) BE SPECIFIC</strong>. Start out with a positive statement about the person&#8217;s performance. Make sure it&#8217;s sincere, not empty flattery. Then get on to the hard stuff by expressing feelings of concern. Start with, &#8220;This is very difficult for me to say, but I need to tell you&#8230;&#8221; Use specifics, stating clearly what happened and giving as much detail as possible. Provide concrete examples of goals for change as well as target dates. Giving critical feedback won&#8217;t work without offering alternative actions and a time period for fulfillment. Finally, solicit feedback. Take into account the listener&#8217;s thoughts and perspectives and you will dramatically improve their chances of meeting the objectives.</p>
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