Ugluu » Kimberlie Dykeman http://www.ugluu.com What makes us stick together? Mon, 07 Jun 2010 22:39:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc en hourly 1 SOAPBOX® Motivation: Time to Speak Up http://www.ugluu.com/soapbox-motivation-time-to-speak-up/ http://www.ugluu.com/soapbox-motivation-time-to-speak-up/#comments Mon, 03 Aug 2009 18:04:24 +0000 Kimberlie Dykeman http://www.ugluu.com/?p=561 Book sample 3 cover finalTruth is innately simple. Almost naively so.  It presents itself without airs, fanfare, or candy-coated shell.  It is what it is and yearns to be hung out there as bare as possible.  When it becomes the center of attention in this divine, pure state, lives are changed immensely and tremendous things happen.  To connect with new people who come into your life, let along maintain the relationships you already, you must  become radically transparent in communication.  Yup, that means being naked, folks!  It requires asking, sharing, and voicing for the greater good.  One of my favorite SOAPBOX® vignettes I wrote several years ago is wrapped around the omnipotent spoken words of a minister and social activist who exemplified this principle.

“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.

Are you upset with your sweetheart; unsatisfied with your raise; bearing physical pain; worried about something; suffering from depression; feeling ignored?  Yet you say “I’m fine” and sweep your emotions under the rug.  We’re not dealing with burnt toast, folks.  The experiences and issues that weave the threads of your life together warrant both attention and discussion.  What’s worse…many of you keep silent the good stuff as well.  If you’ve got a brilliant idea; can help out a situation, love someone with all of your heart… Well, SPEAK ON, DEAR FRIEND!  We spend half of our lives biting our tongues when we should speak up and share ourselves!  Chat up your truth –the connection you make will bring solution, satisfaction and peace of mind.

Net-net:  You want to “stickitivity”, folks? Create an unshakably positive, people-packed future by seeking authenticity in all who surround you.  But more importantly, choose respect for yourself by unabashedly standing in truth and talk it up!  Reveal its power and revel in the liberation it returns.

©2000-2009 by Kimberlie Dykeman. SOAPBOX® is a registered trademark of Kimberlie Dykeman.  This article contains excerpts from copyrighted SOAPBOX® vignettes and Kimberlie Dykeman’s book “Pure Soapbox”.

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